Feeling close, disclosing feelings – family practices and practices of intimacy in youth–parent relations across three generations in Norway

Abstract

In this article we aim to understand how everyday family practices and practices of intimacy are connected in the formation of emotional ties in young people's family relationships, by examining their relationship with their parents across three generations.The analyses draw on qualitative biographical interviews conducted with women and men in intergenerational chains of 24 sons/daughters (born 1992-1993), 23 of their fathers/mothers (born 1963-1970) and 21 of their grandfathers/ grandmothers (born 1931-1945).By first exploring the narratives of the joint everyday practices between young people and their parents and, second, examining the emotional reflexivity in these relational narratives, we highlight differences in young people's relations to their parents.Contrasting the oldest (1950s) and youngest (2010s) youth generations reveals joint activities and closeness to parents in both generations, while the degree of disclosing intimacy, individualised respect and shared interests marks the co-constructive nature of the youngest' parental relations.The middle generation's narratives are distinctive in describing themselves and their parents as living separate lives.This article contributes to the growing field of sociological youth research on family relations and the intimate aspects of the relationships between youth and their parents.

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